Posted on March 11th, 2010 by webmaster
We hear about all the perks and stuff that they get and how they're treated better. Or, at least I do as a guy. To what extent is it true that attractive girls have it better than unattractive girls? How do you know? Thanks, I'm just interested and want to know.yeah of course. attractive people (not just women) have advantages in life over unattractive people. Yeah, today at work I got offered a referral for a possible internship at Microsoft(My dream job.) because some old manager guy was hitting on me. Kinda creepy, plus I have a boyfriend, but yeah, there are perks to being attractive.Well where i am people consider me extremely attractive, so i have an easier time making friends and getting more help doing things.
Also as an attractive person it is also easy to manipulate people to get what you want, i know it sounds mean but it is something that works easily for me.
Another thing that i found was easy for me is getting into schools and jobs. Since i have good looks smiling and having a nice presence helps make people comfortable with me, and makes them like me unlike someone who might look unattractive and angry.
As far as home life and being emotionally stable, it doesn't matter if you're attractive or not we all have feelings and nobody gets the easy way out just if they're pretty.
For instance you could be the most beautiful woman in the world and still have your best friend die.
depends on their environment, where they grow up, etc.
its too stereotypical to classify all "society claims as hot" girls to be treated better. some are and some arent. thats just how it is.I would imagine that girls who abide by the standards of whatâ ™s considered attractive in the public eye would fair better in today's shallow society. Sad really if that's what constitues how you should be treatedI don't think its to do with the physical attractiveness of women.
I think its all about self love and confidence. A woman who presents herself usually feels happier with her appearance and so appreciates her self a lot more then a woman who doesn't. This gives her the confidence and passion we often seen in these women.
The stereotype of the attractive woman is highly publicized in this day and age through the media which shows the criteria of what this women should be e.g skinny, beautiful hair, expensive clothes... So the other women who do not fit into this criteria spend most of their time worrying about how to fit into this unrealistic stereotype and so doubt themselves and have less enthusiasm for life so are less likely to succeed.I would say no. I'm attractive and do not get any special treatment. I may have higher self-esteem, but that's about it.ummm yes. i think attractive girls have it waay better than the unattractive. they just get alot of more attention and the more people tell you you are pretty, the more confidence you have. and the more confident, the better overall view of the person.
(:well its pretty true for the most part but keep in mind attractive or not, the person can still have issues they are dealing with besides what was asked...so they may infact not have it easier generally in life...but for certain things, yes, attractive people certainly do have it easier...such as jobs. jobs that need you to communicate with the customer, often choose the more attractive over the lesser...and when going to clubs, often the more attractive are let in before or much easier than the less attractive person, and even though most of everyone hates that idea, and a lot of people deny it and feel that good people are better than that, it doesnt change the fact that its happening...its idealizing if u cant see reality and choose to say the world is better than this.....anyways...there are plenty more situations where the attractive person gets better treatment or has an easier time with certain situations...i have noticed it with myself and my friends... one example: once i was going to a party, filled up a mansion, a fraternity was throwing this party, it was supposed to be the best one that weekend in the area...and i was with a girl, she was very tall and much heavier...and the bouncer immediately let me in, but didnt for her...she was outside still and he was bs'ing that the place was full while on the otherside, the other bouncer was still letting in people...so i went up to em, and told them she was with me, i told a few of the frat guys that i had a problem with it and that this was total bs and they needed to let her in...so they did after i grabbed her hand and pulled her in...i did it nicely of course, i wasn't about to ruin others nights...i dunno its pretty f'ed up, but it still doenst change reality...even tho i view myself as one of the more attractive as well as others, im not going to sit and say, oh, the pressure of having others look up to me, its such a burden to be so beautiful ohhh poooor me...self pity of n e kind is concidered to me, to be ugly...even if it was the opposite way around and i was ugly, i was in that seat as well...im not going to bich about it...its just pointless and ugly...for me, i think when u think its jelousy...its probably not...sometimes ur just disliked and its not because of ur appearance...when im disliked or im given some harsh words, i never ever assume its because of jelousy...assuming that is just a cope out for what the issue might actually be...most of the time that is.attractive girls get more attention, free stuff, lots of vip access, etc. just based on their looks.
unattractive girls probably have to work for those things.
on the surface attractive girls have it easier but you can't rate attractiveness on the inside.
majority of the time attractive people are in the spotlight more so there's more pressure on them to be attractive, so it kind of makes it so that they're always trying to be the epitome of perfect.
its kind of like being a famous celebrity or a normal person.
also, getting a job. if two girls apply for the same position and both equally qualified but one is more attractive, the more attractive one is going to get hired. It all depends on the definition of "easy". Sure, being pretty has its advantages. Like free stuff, and getting at the front of the line. But pretty girls constantly have to worry about whether or not the guy they are with is with them because they are pretty, or if they are with them because of whats deeper than that. Also, we are constantly defending blows by jealous girls. All the time. Girls are catty. Beautiful people also tend to have a life full of drama. It's definatley not "easy". But, who's life is? We all have our own problems and demons. And it seems to me that every one is beautiful in their own way. Besides, is not beauty in the eye of the beholder?Yes they are treated better. I had braces, glasses, acne, frizzy hair, the works when I was really young 13-15. I grew out of it all when I was about 16. People think I'm really attractive now and I'm treated SO differently by everyone.Yes. We live in a vain society. Brains are admirable and personality is brownie points, but beauty is envied, worshiped, and adored.
True story. i see it two ways, a pretty girl will get more freebies per se. for example, getting out of speeding tickets, free food or drinks but an average girl would probably get better jobs that pay better for her intelligence and more serious look. that's not to say that the more attractive girl isn't smarter than the average looking girl but this is how i've seen things so far in my short life. I am 26 by the way and do not consider myself beautiful. lol good luck#If you have any other info about this subject , Please add it free.# |
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